I was previously engaged and my fiancée returned our ring. We haven’t been able to recover much since this happened and we’ve been struggling to address the previous abusive behavior in our relationship to move on and grow together. I made the choice yesterday as an act of faith to let this relationship grow, trusting that if the Lord’s will be for us to reconcile this and be together, He will make way. I’m honestly just so confused with where things are and I’m being lead in different directions. Some make me feel I am being gaslit and need to make a healthy decision for myself. Some make me feel that I’ve overreacted and made things a bigger deal than necessary and ruined my relationship because of my sensitivity. Overall, I know the Lord sees and understands my trial and that when I surrender this situation to Him, I can’t go wrong. An action was necessary to make rather than staying stagnant, but from here on I’m laying it at the feet of the cross and letting God do the rest. I don’t want to touch the situation further. If anyone has direction to offer as well as prayer, it would be greatly appreciated as I head into a new season to see where Christ would like to demonstrate His holiness through it.