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6 months ago
I'm in desperate need of clarity from the Lord. I am no longer spiritually attached to my wife. Our yoke has become so uneven that I'm carrying all of the spiritual on my side. I gave my life to Christ on resurrection Sunday of last year, just as in the book of Romans states you will be born again. I for sure have been born, and I see the world from God's perspective and have truly put all my faith into him, knowing that he has the perfect plan for me and that he loves me. I say all this to say that my wife has been my worst enemy in this blessing of a new life that I have received. Whenever I have tried to explain Jesus to her, it's like she becomes this angry person who just doesn't want to hear anything about "Your God." She has said many hurtful things that have been highly unnecessary in conversations. When I don't feed into her anger with the world. To not go on a long tangent anytime an issue occurs, my statement is, "God's got it, so I'm not worried about it." And that just ticks her off, and the slander comes against me and against God. I have prayed every day for her to experience the love of Christ. The more I pray, the more I see who she truly is, and I feel as if the Lord is showing me her true self. I struggle to stay in the marriage because being with someone who has so much hate in her heart and soul is beyond complicated. But I can't justify leaving because God is clear on how he feels about divorce. It feels as if our season together has come to an end, and I'm supposed to be moving forward in my life with the Lord without her. I need some help, brothers and sisters. I need clarity on what the Lord truly wants from me.
Entendo o que você está passando! Quanto mais você fala de Jesus, mais ela se enfurece não é? Então não fale! Mostre-o!! Mostre Jesus em seu caráter e comportamento diário! E ore, ore muito por ela e seu casamento. "Confie no Senhor de todo o seu coração e não se apoie no seu próprio entendimento, reconheça-o em todos os seus caminhos e Ele endireitará as suas veredas." Provérbios 3.5
A forma que Deus se encontrará com a sua amada esposa pode ser bem diferente da forma como Ele te tocou, mas não perca a fé e confiança no Senhor Deus! Seja valente! 🙏🙏
-us wisdom and increase our faith. I don’t know how to help your relationship only God can but I think instead of telling her things about our God maybe you can lead by example? As in lead with love no matter how much hate she has in her heart. Show her that the children of God are to love one another and even their enemies and pray for her everyday. Maybe your life is a testament to her one day.
Hi, what you’re going through must really be hard and i’m so proud of you for having faith in yourself and God that he has a plan for you. God is in control and we fully believe that everything that he does is for our better. He puts trials and tribulations in our life to grant-
I would love to read the word together. But she wants nothing to do with the Bible. Our marriage unfortunately wasn't built on Christ since we got married while both were in sin.
I'm truly sorry to hear that... Try to read the Bible with her or talk to her about true love that comes from Jesus only... And that Love without Jesus It's meaningless. When the the lawn it withers it withers the flower also. So whoever built a marriage in Christ It's like somebody that build his house in rock. But whoever don't have Christ in his relationship It's like somebody that build his house on sand.
"If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you."
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Frère dans la foi en Christ, vous avez deux choses à faire : 1. Il faut que tu l'aime tant peu importe son attitude et bon comportement vis-à-vis de toi. 2. Il faut beaucoup prier pour elle en demandant au Seigneur de toucher son cœur et qu'elle change. Emanoela Evallin a tellement dit des choses très capitales qu'il faut les mettre en pratique.
Brother in faith in Christ, you have two things to do: 1. You must love her no matter her attitude and good behavior towards you. 2. You must pray a lot for her, asking the Lord to touch her heart and for her to change. Emanoela Evallin has said very important things that need to be put into practice.