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1 month ago
I’m struggling with a break up. She is the person I prayed for my whole life. We both would tell each other how perfect our relationship was when we first began dating. I didn’t pray for the wisdom or strength to keep her. Things happened and we no longer talk at all. She has completely stopped communicating. It’s hard for me to let go. I wanted a God fearing woman and when I finally found her I didn’t respond the way I should have when he blesses me. I’m not giving up it’s been several months. My relationship with God is stronger and I feel he doesn’t want me to give up. I miss her and pray we reconnect and build a relationship better than what we had before.
Thank you it’s comforting to know I have someone else out there going thru the same thing and sharing with me. I have found myself praying over my situation a lot. I pray more over it then I do anything else. Just about everything in my life right now seems to be on track besides my relationship with my ex. I will keep praying for you and me both. One day we will reach out to each other about how God restored the relationship. I appreciate you taking the time to reach out share and pray. Everything will be ok. I’m here if you ever need to talk about anything.
"Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland."
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Hello, thank you for praying for me. I just saw your prayer request, and it truly touched my heart because I can relate so deeply. I honestly believe God led me to make the post I did — like He was showing me that someone else out there is struggling with the same thing. That’s why I shared it today — I felt He wanted me to give insight, perspective, and hope to someone. And then seeing your post, going through something so similar, felt like confirmation. I was really moved by it. I prayed for love, and God gave me someone very special. And now, I find myself in almost the exact same situation. All I can say is: keep praying for restoration, for her protection, and keep talking to the Lord about it. Grow with Him as much as you can — maybe He wants to shape us first before He restores everything. I’ve felt the same conviction not to give up. God gave me hope when I was at my lowest. It’s painful waiting, but I truly understand the feeling. I tried letting go once, but He didn’t let me — I felt a strong conviction that day. And now I’m grateful, because I know I would’ve fallen back into old ways and strayed from Him. Honestly, I’m scared right now and struggling with attacks and temptations and thoughts of giving up and backsliding— and I’m sure you’ve felt the same. But reading your words reminded me: this is God. He’s giving us hope, connecting two people facing the same battle. Let this be a sign for us, brother. Let’s keep praying for each other — for restoration in our relationships, and for deliverance from loneliness and suffering. As Matthew 18:20 says: “If two of you agree here on earth concerning anything you ask, my Father in heaven will do it.” Thank you, brother. Let’s keep lifting each other up in prayer. Let's not give up And honestly it's also no coincidence that our names in this app is the first letters of our first and last me names ✝️